It's easy to let little things get you down.
I've realized over the last few years that the BIGGEST arguments (OK - differences of opinion) that I have with Lesley are based on RIDICULOUSLY tiny things!
I've bet if you've been married more than the 'honeymoon period' - you'll understand what I mean!
It's EASY to automatically think that the BIG things are wrong when in fact your judgment may be clouded over the little things!
Sure...all of these little 'issues' or 'problems' can mount up and become a compouned 'monster' much bigger than the sumn of its parts.
But...only if YOU let it!
It's not easy to step back...and look at the little things for what they are - LITTLE THINGS!
Each one most certainly is separate from each other...and, usually with hindsight...isn't really as big as you think it is.
Sometimes...you just have to 'roll with the punches' and just keep going...even though it feels that you can't take any more.
I've got news for you - YOU can!
But...you must STOP worrying about the 'WHY'...and focus instead on turning your thinking around to the positive and start yourself working towards the 'HOW' you can take ACTION.
If you are mentally defeated before you start...then, no matter what you do...you'll NEVER turn it around.
Hate to say it...but it's true.
Someone's got to tell YOU.
So...as the great Dale Carnegie once said (and wrote a book about) -
"Stop Worrying And Start Living!"
Posted by vurnumg
