Whoever you are...and whatever you do, unless you have that "little voice" inside your head under YOUR control - you will never succeed.
Unless YOU have YOU on your side...then you will be struggling before you even start!
So...
- STOP blaming yourself for what you have (or haven't) done to get to where you are now.
- STOP putting your talents down. You have more skills than you realize.
- STOP thinking about why you can't do something...and instead focus on why you CAN!
- STOP blaming other people. YOU are totally responsible for the outcome of YOUR life...nobody else.
- STOP comparing yourself to other people. Whatever measure you use...you will always find a way to tell yourself that you are 'second-best' compared to them!
- STOP wishing it was different...and start ACTING as if it was!
- STOP focusing on your 'weaknesses'...and instead look at how you can leverage your strengths.
- STOP looking at things going wrong as failure. The only time you fail at something is if you repeat the same mistake after not having learned the lesson from it the first time!
- STOP telling yourself that other people are 'lucky'. Luck is something that is a natural by-product of a positive attitude followed by action!
So...think about how YOU, and not your external circumstances, might be holding you back.
What little ways can you begin to start making sure that YOU are on your own side?
Posted by vurnumg
