Why Me? Because I'm Totally Responsible...That's Why!

Have you felt that you have been let down lately?

Do you sometimes feel that it seems to be you against 'the World'?

Well - at times this week - it has seemed like that way for me, too.

I have been let down by a key component of my E-course - the autoresponders. I have done (and will have) a lot of manual work and an added extra expense - all because I was let down on the functionality by a third party.

Who's fault is it? Theirs...or was it mine?

Well...there's two answers to that really - the easy one and the hard one.

The easy one is - it's all their fault. "Why did this have to happen to me?", "Why didn't they tell me?"

Then - there's the hard one. It's my fault. "I was the one who made the initial decision to use them", "I was the one who was happy with the testing (see my posts a couple of days ago! lol)

When all is said and done - you have the sole responsibility for anything that affects your life!"

You just have to accept it - like I have had to do. We all make 'mistakes'. If we didn't then we proabably wouldn't learn that much.

You can't go around blaming people for things that you could have control over.

You might blame your boss for not promoting you.
You might blame your wife for your unhappy marriage.
You might blame the stores for offering you the credit in the first place.

Wake up! Start acting like an adult! Accept the responsibility for who, what, where, and how you are!

Playing the blame game is easy - but however you play it - you will never, ever win in the end.

It's surprising how much your life can change just by accepting responsibility and being truthful to yourself. Change can only happen when you absolutely, positively, want it to happen.

So start becoming more responsible today - there's no better time to start than right now!

Posted by vurnumg