We had a nurse come in for a few hours this afternoon to look after Connor.
Despite the fact that both Lesley and I couldn't really be bothered - we had to do something to take advantage of this 'free' time.
The easiest thing would have been to go shopping - but then that's not exactly fair on Katie.
So - we decided that we would let our feisty six year old choose what we would do.
Off to swimming first (not one of my favorite pasttimes - that's for sure! lol). Even though it started off as a 'chore' for me - all was forgotten when I saw how she was enjoying herself. All the money in the world can't buy that look of happiness on the face of your child, could it?
Then - off to Burger King for a cheeseburger - then on to a toy shop to spend her pocket money on a new dress for her 'doll of the moment'.
Even though we would have gladly done absolutely nothing today - it has turned into a wonderful day - just from seeing Katie getting so much out of it.
Whether you're six ot sixty - you will still love being 'spoilt' - and have something or some time devoted especially to you.
That's why family is important.
Do something unselfishly for someone you love - and watch how your world changes!
They get something they want (or get to spend some time with someone they love)
...and you get that 'warm' feeling that you only get when you see someone you love happy and pleased to see you.
You might think that this sort of stuff is 'soft'. Hey - this stuff is important!
Giving love unconditionally is one of those things that get left by the wayside when there are bills to pay - or careers to succeed in. You don't have to be one of those people who lose touch - and grow distant from the very people that can love and support you through the challenges ahead.
Sometimes all it takes is a phone call to them out-of-the-blue - and their whole day can change for the better in an instant.
If it can work magic on a six year old - then it can certainly work for anyone...no matter how old they are.
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